Quote Originally Posted by rebgirl420
And this is bothering me intensly. He has always really hung around with my friends more but recently he has been getting back with his friends. Which is fine as long as he calls me and tells me where he's at im fine. But now he wants us to all hang out.

The problem however is that whenever I am around his friends I totally get extremely nervous and I dont say anything and I come across as mean. Im not good with people I don't know. Especially guys. I just don't want to look bad in front of his friends and embaress him. But since I clam up around them they think I dislike them. I guess im shy around them. Once I know people however im fine. Im outgoing and I love to talk and stuff. Its just that I get SOOOOO damn anxious. *sigh*

How can i fix this?

I think that happens to a lot of us when we first start seriously hanging with our sweethearts friends.
A group of new people
all kinds of expectations
It's scary.
Just start slow. Mingle a little and when you get nervous, head back to what you determine to be a safety zone.
Little by little, your sweet self will emerge. Just like a butterfly from a catapiller.