So we're going to be hanging out with John's friends a lot more....

[slipknotpsycho]

well you said yourself he always hung out with yours...

equality...

[Anubis10012007]

I tend to stay away from large groups personally unless it is a concert I am dying to see. I am not totally anti-social, but I have a thing where I do get very nervous and scared when I am around people I do not know and even people that I do know. I'm a loner. When I was younger I went through a lot of emotional pain and scaring that I guess still has not fully healed. Thats why I do not go to parties or bars and generally spend most of my time studying and smoking. It's just how I am. I am fine when I am alone watching TV or reading.

You seem like the outgoing type. Are you sure that you are just not jealous that he is hanging around a lot of his friends? Maybe he did not feel comfortable around your friends so he wants to be around his.

[MadSativa]

I totaly get what your sayin but more than likely when your sitting their all quite their thinkin, not sayin thinkin damm Johns hitting that...... damn evey night.............damn. And your uncomfertable with em cause you dont know em that well, like birdy said. Give it some time and mabey being all baked woundering what to say amoungst the wolves is not a good idea specialy if you got the cop in training staring (drooling) at your fine ass thinkin.........shes freakin stoned off her gorde hahah. Unless your comfortable being blazed in front of strait groups. But I say giv it some time and if their hanging out drinkin then smok a doob in another room and come back see what its like. Coars if they ever bring up bullshit weed facts you know what to do. Dont let em bully you

[LuckyG]

Whenever I'm in a situation like this I usually just find one or two people that I like talking to and talk to them. But then, I'm a loner and I hate planned gatherings. If a couple of friends show up spontaneously, c'mon in, let's hang out, but if I'm expected to talk, well, screw that.

[rebgirl420]

nah im not jealous of his friends. I think its awsome that were getting closer to them its just a minor technicallity. And even though hisnfriend is a cop in training he used to smoke and drinks and he couldnt care less. I talked to John about it and he was really supportive. He knew that I was having problems and surprised me with pink daisies and carnations.

[stinkyattic]

...more than likely when your sitting their all quite their thinkin, not sayin thinkin damm Johns hitting that...... damn evey night.............damn. ...amoungst the wolves is not a good idea specialy if you got the cop in training staring (drooling) at your fine ass

Wow. Way to help out the situation... and be mature at the same time.
Maybe that's what YOU would be thinking, but some men have a bit more class than that.
I'm not impressed.

[psteve]

Wow. Way to help out the situation... and be mature at the same time.
Maybe that's what YOU would be thinking, but some men have a bit more class than that.
I'm not impressed.

While I agree that this line of thinking is unimpressive, there is a point to be taken.
Most men are more likely to be thinking that Reb is 'hot', than that she's 'fat'. I know of very few men who would consider Reb unattractive in any way.
And while she is concerned about appearing unsociable, they probably won't even notice her apprehension.

[stinkyattic]

Oh I wasn't even thinking about whether anyone would consider reb fat... I mean, reb, you aren't. That's just crazy talk. Just in case all the male attention you get around here has left you with any doubts... sheesh... :wtf:
Awe the mans with wit and they will be perfectly happy to have made your acquaintance.

[cannabis campbell]

Yeah like slip said its only fair really.. but the best and only way I think it to just get to know them better the better you get to know them than the more comfortable you will feel around them and the more you will talk, dont worry everyone gets a bit nervous and stuff sometimes :greenthumb:

[Chronisseur]

Understand this. WOMEN ARE THE DOMINANT SPECIES.

You know your hot, but maybe you dont realize how nervous the guys are around YOU!
Are you maybe lacking the self confidence? You dont have to answer but maybe think to yourself.."why am I shy?"
I've had bad anxiety for all my life, and no longer take meds for it. What it came down to, was me giving myself the credit I deserved, to live MY LIFE for ME! This is all choppy cuz Im EXTREMELY BLAZED but I'll try 2 explain better later!