So we're going to be hanging out with John's friends a lot more....

[Road to Zion]

haha Id like to smoke but his friend is training to be a cop haha. He can tell if im high. Not that he cares, he used to smoke and he still drinks. Its just that I dont wanna be paranoid that he's staring at me and thinking bad things haha.

i'm pretty sure every straight guy in this world thats staring at you is thinking bad things.

But just try to interact. Talk about something you like to do. Its not that hard

[Chronisseur]

i'm pretty sure every straight guy in this world thats staring at you is thinking bad things.

I'm just gonna assume you're being sarcastic. Even so, what the hell kind of thing is that to say?:wtf:

I for one, look at Reb and think, damn, thats a good woman! Not often a girl can look that good AND be a loyal partner! Much respect for that!:thumbsup:

[TallulahGreen]

And this is bothering me intensly. He has always really hung around with my friends more but recently he has been getting back with his friends. Which is fine as long as he calls me and tells me where he's at im fine. But now he wants us to all hang out.

The problem however is that whenever I am around his friends I totally get extremely nervous and I dont say anything and I come across as mean. Im not good with people I don't know. Especially guys. I just don't want to look bad in front of his friends and embaress him. But since I clam up around them they think I dislike them. I guess im shy around them. Once I know people however im fine. Im outgoing and I love to talk and stuff. Its just that I get SOOOOO damn anxious. *sigh*

How can i fix this?

My boyfriends friends are just as much my friends as him. In fact, when my boyfriend isn't around ill hang out with his friends. They are my best friends. I never look at them as his friends, and my friends are just as much as his friends as they are mine. We never have the opportunity to really have friends that aren't friends with both of us....

Just be yourself...I mean if John likes you his friends will probably like you. I can't imagine not being friends with his friends.

You will be fine, just do it.:thumbsup:

[Fugitive]

I've always been an introvert, but lately I've been working on it, one thing I always used to do when I got home was too analyze everything negatively, all the things I said and how it was perceived etc.. I wanted to not care anymore and thought that if I'm doing it they must be doing it too ! they're probably not thinking about what I did or said..

Just say the things you want too say and its more fun and easier too connect with people. If I constantly try and think of the right thing to say I end up being boring and nervous.