Quote Originally Posted by Gandalf_The_Grey
and fakeboobs, sorry to go off on you but I feel you have a very distorted idea of what I'm all about.
No, I think I have a good basic understanding of you and in fact, I expected a response like your first one as well as the second one. Believe it or not I'm in your corner in both your medical problems and relationship issues/problems/questions. In fact I spent many hours reading your posts as GoG and Mr. D before responding to this thread:

http://boards.cannabis.com/medicinal...nosing-me.html

Notice in my second response I use those qualifiers Birdgirl was talking about like "you may....?" I continue to use them throughout the thread ("almost positive," "they might").

When I told you about the advice you give sometimes is wrong, it wasn't based just on the canker sore thread. Sometimes you give good advice other times you miss the mark completely. So the statement about the advice is sometimes completely wrong was based on more than just one thread or post, it is a trend. Some of these include heartburn, opiates, opiates in cough syrup, referred pain, etc. Some of those could have been avoided by not writing the posts in terms of absolute certainty. It may be something as simple as you are unaware of it or something deeper like ego stroking. It doesn't matter why, it matters that you do do it and I do feel your intentions are good.

You also do a lot of doctor bashing in many of your posts. You are free to your opinion but I don't think it is helping your own problems at all. You have bashed them multiple times in the past 2 days in this thread alone (beat with a wet noodle, kick in their asses, they just say I dunno know, useless medical science, etc). Here comes a Star Wars quote (was it Yoda?) Fear leads to Anger. Anger leads to Hate. Hate leads to suffering. Let go of the resentments and I think it may help you.

You also want your doctors to do more than push meds but when they had you doing physical therapy you complained about the cost and that you could do that all on your own (see above thread). So which is it? It seems that when they try to do things in some ways you want it but other ways you are objecting to it. Also, the way you dismissed it so quickly and said you could do the therapy on your own it kind of goes to the certainty talk. In the same breath I hear you often times say different things about how much pain meds you want and what kind (you just talked about the morphine was great but you don't want to take it and get addicted). It gets all so confusing keeping up with you and whether you want more or less pain killers.

So try to be open to constructive criticism as I'm not trying to chastise you but help you although it might sting a bit at first. We'll have a talk about Elisabeth Kubler-Ross and DABDA some other time! :thumbsup:

Also, please be more aware of how you word your responses to other members. :jointsmile: