I'm going to have to go with the masses and say it depends why they're there, as well as how much they mean to me. At this point in my life I'm living with the guy I'm going to marry. We've seriously discussed it, but we're not engaged yet. If he was locked up for pot or some other victim less crime I could see myself waiting for a year. I cant say that I would wait any longer than that though at this point in my life