If your S/O went to jail, would you stay with them?

[BabyFacedAbortion]

If your boyfriend or girlfriend was to get locked up and you've been dating for a long time, would you stay with them or end it?

If they were only going away for a few months?

or a year+?

BabyFacedAbortion Reviewed by BabyFacedAbortion on 08-06-2007. If your S/O went to jail, would you stay with them? If your boyfriend or girlfriend was to get locked up and you've been dating for a long time, would you stay with them or end it? If they were only going away for a few months? or a year+? Rating: 5

[420_24/7]

off topic but stripedseed i saw your avatar and started doing that

[Blindman0v0]

I'd drop that bitch like a used rubber.lol
After I found out where she hid her stash of course.lol

[Spoken Word]

it depends on a lot of things like others have pointed out but......
Honestly, no. I'll write them every week or month and I'd pick them up the day they get out with fresh clothes and invite them to eat, but I've been in that situation and in the end....it's not good for either person.

[420Cat]

If my girlfriend went to jail for:

Doing something horrible to me like, oh I don't know, cutting off my penis, then I would move on.

Killing or assaulting someone she was having an affair with, I'd bail.

Molesting little kids, I'd scram.

Doing hard drugs, I'd leave her, junkies and crackheads aren't worth my time.

Drinking & Driving, I'd stay as long as she hadn't killed or seriously hurt someone.

Killing someone, nope, but if it was self defense, maybe...depends on the circumstances.

Anything to do with 420, nah.

What else is there?

[stripedseed]

off topic but stripedseed i saw your avatar and started doing that

Thanks I do it a lot myself.

Good to see people would stick by their mate.

Of course sex crimes are a no no and even I would be gone.

Stripedseed

[c of green]

did 5 years and she stuck so yeah,if she went i'd stay

[The.Severed.Angel]

For me, it doesn't matter what he did, it's his reasons for doing it. If I can accept his reasons, then maybe we could stand a chance, I mean, if you were locked up wouldn't you want someone to be there and support you?

[birdgirl73]

Yeah, I agree. Depends on what he was going in for, assuming it was a boyfriend. Also depends on the quality of the relationship and my commitment level before the sentencing, too.

I'm assuming your guy got a sentence after that court proceeding you were debating going to watch. You're young, BFA. And your boyfriend, although I know you say you love him, has a mighty perverse way of showing he loves others, particularly you. Think hard about that before you decide to rule out your other options while he's gone. You could be out there fishing for all the other nicer, less addicted, less manipulative, less up-and-down fish in the sea, you know?

[imitator]

Depends entirely on what they got locked up for.

My gf has said time and time again she would leave my ass if she found me doing hard drugs, and if I got arrested for pot, she would never bail me out, and that I better hope I dont get put away for any amount of time, because she is not waiting for anyone in jail.

Personally, for me, it would depend on the "friendly" visiting rule. I still havent had the chance to check off the "have sex with a female inmate who is in jail/prison" line on my things to do list, so I might just for that.