More questions from the newb me.

[stinkyattic]

1. What veg fert is good to get? 20-20-20?.

Nah, the N shoudl be higher than the P and K, but really do yourself a favor and google botanicare or fox farms and see what the levels in those are.

2. Is it good to put water in the soil at night and then in the morning I put the germinated seed in? .

Not the complicated, you can do it like that though, sure.

3. Do I put the veg fert in the soil before or after the germinated seed is in the pot?.

no ferts at ALL in the soil or water for the first couple weeks, until you hve 5 sets of adult leaves

4. Do I use the veg fert once every 3 weeks? (Like fert once then water like every three days?).

You will get a feel for this. It's often opposite, fert fert fert water fert fert etc.

5. What flower fert is good to get? 10-30-30?.

You have the right idea lowering the N.

6. Do I put the flower fert in the new potted soil before or after the plant is in?.

No you put it in the water. Solid chemical ferts are a pain in the ass and cause problems. If you are using soil amendments, they should be organics.

7. Do I use the flower once every 3 weeks? (Like fert once then water like every three days?).

Same as for veg

In my sig there's a quick grow guide that will help you out a bit more.
Thanks for making your questions so easy to answer! Yay for the lists.