I'm going to briefly re-iterate something I've already said:
Growing in your parents' house wihtout their knowledge is frowned uopn, whether or not you think it is something they would be cool with, or even if you think they are shady themselves.

That being said, I don't want to see ANY flaming here.

Bicflikr, it comes down to what you choose to do but don't expect a lot of help, and take the advice gracefully.

Any flaming on this thread from either side will be dealt with.