Quote Originally Posted by slipknotpsycho
well while i'm hesitant to say this about all women....

women want what they can't have... simple as that.... there are soooooooooo many instances of a girl not liking some guy, until he was unavailable to her... then all of a sudden she wants him... (i.e. you chase after her for upwards of a year, nothing... you get with some other chick after giving up, the next week all of a sudden she wants you)
hahahahaha

yes, but that's also true for a lot of men - they want what they can't have. i've seen that many many many times. i'm not denying that women are like that, and i'm not saying that all women or all men are like that, but yes, there are many of both sexes that are like that (in my opinion)

and that's why i laughed. because it's true concerning both women and men.

anyways, dude, hate to say this, but yes, it does sound like she's just using you for drugs. yes, be her friend, but don't go out of your way for her. if she's going to be a fair-weather friend, really there's no reason to bust your ass going out of your way for her. it sounds like she's taking advantage of your niceness and possibly taking advantage because she knows that you did have a crush on her (do you still? if you do, i really think she's not treating you right, don't put up with that shit dude). i don't think you should completely drop her as a friend, but she'll get the message if you're not always there at her every beck and call. don't let her play mind games with you, sounds like thats what she's doing.