Learning to enjoy ones own company is an admirable goal.
And until you can entertain yourself, a meaningful relationship with another person is impossible.
You can't count on someone else to keep you company all the time- it's unfair to you both.
I think I only really figured this out recently, and only internalized it within the last year. It's very freeing.
stinkyattic Reviewed by stinkyattic on . What do you prefer, being lonely (single) or "with" someone? Simple question. I've learned a lot about myself from the year or so I've been single but it sucks. I know what I can offer...... Anyways, some people tell me it's better to be single and lonely cause you have no boundries and all that. and of course, being in a good relationship has it's obvious benefits (:(I miss them) so what'll it be? single or in a good relationship? Rating: 5