Will it ever be the same?

[Acouwaila]

Ok, well I DIDNT take anyones advise and tried to get my girlfriend back when she broke up with me a few days ago.

She said she will be with me again which makes me soo happy

but for my first question...she said she just wants some space..

We were fighting a lot when we were together but Ive done a lot of thinking and I know exactly how to cut down fighting...

anyways...what exactly does she mean by that? It makes me sad because it feels like she doesnt want to be with me a lot. But at the same time, im sure she has a reason? right?

Second question...Ive noticed she has been hesitant to say "I love you"

I swear to God 2 days before we broke up she was hugging me and kissing me like we'd be together forever...

Now she is being kind of distant....

Will it ever be how it used to?

Is there anything I can do?

Im so depressed right now, I just want everything to be like it used to be.

Acouwaila Reviewed by Acouwaila on 08-02-2007. Will it ever be the same? Ok, well I DIDNT take anyones advise and tried to get my girlfriend back when she broke up with me a few days ago. She said she will be with me again which makes me soo happy but for my first question...she said she just wants some space.. We were fighting a lot when we were together but Ive done a lot of thinking and I know exactly how to cut down fighting... anyways...what exactly does she mean by that? It makes me sad because it feels like she doesnt want to be with me a lot. But Rating: 5

[Acouwaila]

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[Mississippi Steve]

If she wants some "space", she probably already has somebody else in mind. If she ain't riding him, she's already got him cut from the herd. Time to cut your losses and look somewhere else.

[Acouwaila]

Thanks bat man...

I know she was getting annoyed at how I act...and Ive definately learned how to fix that...

but if shes bored, I guess im screwed...

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[batman11]

Dude it sounds like me n my ex... We dated on and off from about 6th grade to my sophmore year and college... I was the stupid ass who always took her back after she would break up with me.. And i got hurt worse and worse everytime. I was madly in love with her. And i know she loved/still has love for me but this is becuz we have been best friends since 6th grade pretty much.. Its not worth in the long run she is either getting annoyed or bored. My suggestions would to be move on.. I dont really know your whole situation but in mine I woulda of been better to just move on.. Women can really get to your head, i know from experience i swear she made me a lil crazy. And once you start experiencing other girls youll think so much different about her.. good luck bro,, and keep ya head up

[Weedhound]

Usually when people say they "want space" it means they are reconsidering their options. You say you're afraid to ask and you don't want her mad at you. (smart thought btw) so that puts you in the position of "wait and see." At this point she may not really know HOW she feels about you. This can be both good and bad....starting "semi" over can be good for a relationship if everyone has learned from it but it can also be a thorn in future arguments (you guys fight alot you said) The most you can do here is be supportive and float around in the wings without invading her "space." She'll notice.....believe me.

Good luck.



Good luck.

[MadSativa]

yeah girls huh cant live with out em, good luck main

[Acouwaila]

anyways...what exactly does she mean by that? It makes me sad because it feels like she doesnt want to be with me a lot. But at the same time, im sure she has a reason? right?

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Weedhound,

I am very concerned about how she feels about it

[thcbongman]

She has to have forgiveness in her heart. No matter what you do, unless she truly forgives you, nothing can progress.

But nothing will come of it if you don't have a real talk with her. Miscommunication is causing a lot of problems. You gotta say how you feel, and make it clear.

[Acouwaila]

I've changed my act.

Im kind of one of those hippy people who criticize everything about everyone else, not because I want to be better...but because I dont like material shit...

anyways...Im trying to change...

Im trying to keep my thoughts to myself, because all the comments aren't really necessary to begin with..

Im just trying to be a nicer person in general

Im not saying she is perfect and needs no improvement on her personality...

but honestly, im too scared to ask because I dont want her to get mad at me...

and I've learned to deal with it anyways....