Will it ever be the same?

[Acouwaila]

Ok, well I DIDNT take anyones advise and tried to get my girlfriend back when she broke up with me a few days ago.

She said she will be with me again which makes me soo happy

but for my first question...she said she just wants some space..

We were fighting a lot when we were together but Ive done a lot of thinking and I know exactly how to cut down fighting...

anyways...what exactly does she mean by that? It makes me sad because it feels like she doesnt want to be with me a lot. But at the same time, im sure she has a reason? right?

Second question...Ive noticed she has been hesitant to say "I love you"

I swear to God 2 days before we broke up she was hugging me and kissing me like we'd be together forever...

Now she is being kind of distant....

Will it ever be how it used to?

Is there anything I can do?

Im so depressed right now, I just want everything to be like it used to be.

Acouwaila Reviewed by Acouwaila on 08-02-2007. Will it ever be the same? Ok, well I DIDNT take anyones advise and tried to get my girlfriend back when she broke up with me a few days ago. She said she will be with me again which makes me soo happy but for my first question...she said she just wants some space.. We were fighting a lot when we were together but Ive done a lot of thinking and I know exactly how to cut down fighting... anyways...what exactly does she mean by that? It makes me sad because it feels like she doesnt want to be with me a lot. But Rating: 5

[CUPNOODLES]

SAME THING HAPPEND 2 ME...SHE LIKES U AND STUFF BUT SHE GOT BORED/TIRED OF U OR BEING WITH U

[Hardcore Newbie]

the brutal truth is, probably not. But, if you're willing to go for it, and make of it what you will, then who knows? If you think it's worth trying for, then do it.

[Spoken Word]

I couldn't tell you for sure(if it will ever be the same) but I really don't think so.
I'm going to be honest with you. I think you should start thinking about life without her.
This problem happends to a lot of people.
Start letting go of her, little by little.
I know it seems hard but by the looks of it, the relationship is running on empty.
She might start getting annoyed or start looking for stuff in other places, if she hasn't already.

One of the great things about love and heartbreak is that, with time, it heals itself. And then when you meet your next partner, it starts all over:jointsmile:

[Acouwaila]

sad...

I asked her the same question...

and she said "Well duh"

That made me feel better, but I hope she is not just saying that

[thcbongman]

For your emotional well-being, I'd leave, unless you find the strength to give each other some space.

[Spoken Word]

well duh?

lol she seems... distant.

[Weedhound]

What is it with the guys? Do you just turn on a light switch, slap each others butts, do a high five and everything is "the same again"

Dude...I find this amazing. I asked her back. She said yes. Now I'm so depressed because its not the way I want it. Absolutely nowhere in this thread did anyone talk about how SHE might have been affected by all this. Sensitive new-world men....my ass!!!

Yeah, speaking as a woman.......I'd be distant too. Sounds like you two need to sit down and have a serious talk and guess what.....you should start. You want her to trust you again? Better start giving her a reason.

[Acouwaila]

I've changed my act.

Im kind of one of those hippy people who criticize everything about everyone else, not because I want to be better...but because I dont like material shit...

anyways...Im trying to change...

Im trying to keep my thoughts to myself, because all the comments aren't really necessary to begin with..

Im just trying to be a nicer person in general

Im not saying she is perfect and needs no improvement on her personality...

but honestly, im too scared to ask because I dont want her to get mad at me...

and I've learned to deal with it anyways....

[Acouwaila]

anyways...what exactly does she mean by that? It makes me sad because it feels like she doesnt want to be with me a lot. But at the same time, im sure she has a reason? right?

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Weedhound,

I am very concerned about how she feels about it