dating the girl your best friend likes

[ChronicBud]

so last night i was hanging out with this girl my friend digs and we were a little drunk and he wasnt there, so i decided to make a move and started to make out with her, next thing you know she wants a relationship but dont get me wrong i have always cared about her and im just having a little trouble deciding what to do. should i just tell him and see how he feels or just forget about her and move on. Thanks for the reply's.

ChronicBud Reviewed by ChronicBud on 08-02-2007. dating the girl your best friend likes so last night i was hanging out with this girl my friend digs and we were a little drunk and he wasnt there, so i decided to make a move and started to make out with her, next thing you know she wants a relationship but dont get me wrong i have always cared about her and im just having a little trouble deciding what to do. should i just tell him and see how he feels or just forget about her and move on. Thanks for the reply's. Rating: 5

[GraziLovesMary]

Damn dude.. lol I hate these situations.. fuck I dont really know what to say. I dont know the nature of your friendship with either of these people too well. I dont wanna give the wrong advice here.

[Ganj]

I don't know how your friend would react, so figure it out yourself. I would take the bonding a step further and sandwich the girl between the two buddies.

[Spoken Word]

Talk to your friend. It's that simple.
For example. My closest friend used to live right next to me and he had started a (sexual but not official) relationship with a clerk at a corner store around the block. I knew of her and always saw them together. One day before going out we stop by the store to buy god knows what and he talks to her and goes back in my car, I still have to buy all the stuff so I'm waiting in line and she start flirting with me. I don't respond to it, but I'm nice. After buying the stuff- I was prolly in your position. lol She was a very good looking girl.

So I tell him. and go figure, he doesn't care.
Of course, it all depends on how close you are but since you said best friend- he shouldn't care and should definately NOT put anyone in between you two.

friendship is one of the most important things about life.

[thcbongman]

Yeah it really all depends on how your friend is by nature.

[Acouwaila]

Ive had some first hand experience on this topic.

I kind of liked her so much that I didn't care about what my friend wanted though.

He would have done the same to me if he had the opportunity.

I left him depressed for a long time and me and the girl broke up....so it was a LOSE/LOSE situation for both of us...

I got my share of depression over that too...

Don't do it man...respect your friend

[Ganj]

I think a true friend will have less difficulty getting over "betrayal." Then again, if you do go through with it you will merely be using your friendship to manipulate concepts, such as integrity, honesty, etc. Concepts that should not be abused for personal gain.

[cannabisis4for20]

A. Hire him a hooker to help him forget all about the other girl

B. Sneak around with her behind his back and keep juggling it until it all falls apart and he gets super pissed off

C. Screw your friend and do whatever the hell you want

D. Give up the happiness you would have had with her for your friend's, after all "Bros before hos"

As you can see, they're all very good options. My favorite is A.

[BlAzInIt4:20]

honestly if he was your home boy you wouldnt of touched that... but first come first serve right?? he should of made a move when he could.. And i think you should confront ur friend and see what he thinks and says.. girls come and go and if this is your good friend.. you don't want to lose that.. its hard to find loyal friends now adays.. but this is just my Opinion.. good luck with your situation !

[LegalizeTheGreen]

bro's before ho's. nuff said. If you fuck over your friend, you don't deserve to have a penis. If you talk to him and he is ok, well then go for it.