virgin problems

[Captain Jack Sparrow]

okay, this may sound stupid but to me the sexuality forums here seem to give the most best and honest advice/answers/experience out there.

that being said, i'm 20 years old and am still a virgin. i've been with probably 5 or 6 different girls throughout my teen years and until now and i've done light stuff but not alot, most of the stuff was the opposite sex going down on me, etc. i never really returned the favor 'cause i didn't have to lol.

well anyways, i'm kind of self-conscious about it now. i feel like i'm too far behind the game now and that the next girl i'm going to be with i'm not going to be able to please because of my lack of experience. i'm not sure whether just to be honest about it and tell her i am a virgin and don't have much experience with women or what. it's not that i don't want to be sexually active, i do and the worst part is is that i've had the chance, PLENTY OF TIMES i just sort of...bailed out. now i'm going to be 21 in a few months and be able to hit up clubs and stuff but i'm worried cuz honestly, i have next to no experience and most girls i meet have a lot, or a normal amount.

for all the ladies out there, what do you think? do women prefer guys with the experience who know what they're doing? it is better to just be up front and honest about it and work from there? sometimes i feel like just getting it out of the way and hooking up with some of the trashiest sluts i know to gain the experience, but i really don't think that's the way. i kinda want it to be better than that. my problem isn't getting the girl, it's what to do when i have her lol.

if you can understand and offer any advice or anything, thanks. maybe i'm just making too big a deal out of things

i don't know i'm so fucking confused sometimes!! thanks for listening!

Captain Jack Sparrow Reviewed by Captain Jack Sparrow on 08-01-2007. virgin problems okay, this may sound stupid but to me the sexuality forums here seem to give the most best and honest advice/answers/experience out there. that being said, i'm 20 years old and am still a virgin. i've been with probably 5 or 6 different girls throughout my teen years and until now and i've done light stuff but not alot, most of the stuff was the opposite sex going down on me, etc. i never really returned the favor 'cause i didn't have to lol. well anyways, i'm kind of self-conscious Rating: 5

[rebgirl420]

Just be honest about it. And if she laughs at you or whatever then you wouldnt wanna sleep with or get into a relationship with her anyway.

[Captain Jack Sparrow]

lol snowblind, i was just reading his thread and his experience with her.

well i put myself out there, 2 nice dates planned for this weekend and another one next week. we'll see how everything goes but i guess i'm just going to buck up, suck up, and just go in head first (figuratively and literally).

i figure there's no use worrying and focusing on all my inexperience since it won't help me gain any, i'm just gonna do my best and learn through experience, though it may be rough and err....quick at first lol. i'm looking forward to being more sexually active and open, i think it's good for the body and the soul to make love.

hopefully my dates are turned on by the fact that i'm so innocent. :thumbsup:

[snowblind]

make like malkane and fuck a whore

julie love is meant to be good

:s3::kisslove::jawdropper::gunfighter2::giggity::b igsmoke:

[ScaryMissMary]

Haha see?? ^^ told ya so

EDIT: Oh and apparantly I love you, Miss Mary lmao

lol thats great.

[GraziLovesMary]

lol man, that one is kind of a oxymoron ya know... because right after you finish you are like... "well, i don't really think they are that good of friends to be honest...."

the worst is when the chick tells on herself... leaves ya thinking "i knew she didn't get off"

Nah.. like as in... your girlfriend and her best friend at the same time... as in... it just kinda fell on my lap and I took advantage of that for about 6 months straight averaging one to two 3-hour sessions a week

[FreshNugz]

Good luck!!

Yea some girls are creeped by the fact, cause they want to know it's going to be good for sure.
But I agree with the women like to be the first to pop a guy's cherry....it makes her comfy...cause maybe she doesnt have all the experience in the world...but knowing you have none, she will feel at ease. And she can train you...hahah as someone said.

[FreshNugz]

be honest. Tell her. If she chooses to help ya out...let her. If not, Reb is right....she's prolly a bitch who isn't worth the time.
Sluts won't pay attention, and will most likely be turned off. But the majority of nice girls would be willing to ease you into it I bet :thumbsup:

Thing is, sounds like you're just gonna go out and find a girl and do that right away. I recommend finding a girl...and casually seeing her and spending time together for a couple dates. She may even appreciate that you didn't try it right away, lol. Once you have spent some time with her, then the time should come...that way you have a little comfort, and can explain your situation.
Good luck:smokin:

[HighTillIDie]

I think telling them that you're a virgin would make many women uncomfortable, they'll just freak out and think you will be crap in bed. Most women like a man that can that's in control.

:thumbsup:

[Fugitive]

I think telling them that you're a virgin would make many women uncomfortable, they'll just freak out and think you will be crap in bed. Most women like a man that can that's in control.