okay, this may sound stupid but to me the sexuality forums here seem to give the most best and honest advice/answers/experience out there.

that being said, i'm 20 years old and am still a virgin. i've been with probably 5 or 6 different girls throughout my teen years and until now and i've done light stuff but not alot, most of the stuff was the opposite sex going down on me, etc. i never really returned the favor 'cause i didn't have to lol.

well anyways, i'm kind of self-conscious about it now. i feel like i'm too far behind the game now and that the next girl i'm going to be with i'm not going to be able to please because of my lack of experience. i'm not sure whether just to be honest about it and tell her i am a virgin and don't have much experience with women or what. it's not that i don't want to be sexually active, i do and the worst part is is that i've had the chance, PLENTY OF TIMES i just sort of...bailed out. now i'm going to be 21 in a few months and be able to hit up clubs and stuff but i'm worried cuz honestly, i have next to no experience and most girls i meet have a lot, or a normal amount.

for all the ladies out there, what do you think? do women prefer guys with the experience who know what they're doing? it is better to just be up front and honest about it and work from there? sometimes i feel like just getting it out of the way and hooking up with some of the trashiest sluts i know to gain the experience, but i really don't think that's the way. i kinda want it to be better than that. my problem isn't getting the girl, it's what to do when i have her lol.

if you can understand and offer any advice or anything, thanks. maybe i'm just making too big a deal out of things

i don't know i'm so fucking confused sometimes!! thanks for listening!
Captain Jack Sparrow Reviewed by Captain Jack Sparrow on . virgin problems okay, this may sound stupid but to me the sexuality forums here seem to give the most best and honest advice/answers/experience out there. that being said, i'm 20 years old and am still a virgin. i've been with probably 5 or 6 different girls throughout my teen years and until now and i've done light stuff but not alot, most of the stuff was the opposite sex going down on me, etc. i never really returned the favor 'cause i didn't have to lol. well anyways, i'm kind of self-conscious Rating: 5