virgin problems

[Captain Jack Sparrow]

okay, this may sound stupid but to me the sexuality forums here seem to give the most best and honest advice/answers/experience out there.

that being said, i'm 20 years old and am still a virgin. i've been with probably 5 or 6 different girls throughout my teen years and until now and i've done light stuff but not alot, most of the stuff was the opposite sex going down on me, etc. i never really returned the favor 'cause i didn't have to lol.

well anyways, i'm kind of self-conscious about it now. i feel like i'm too far behind the game now and that the next girl i'm going to be with i'm not going to be able to please because of my lack of experience. i'm not sure whether just to be honest about it and tell her i am a virgin and don't have much experience with women or what. it's not that i don't want to be sexually active, i do and the worst part is is that i've had the chance, PLENTY OF TIMES i just sort of...bailed out. now i'm going to be 21 in a few months and be able to hit up clubs and stuff but i'm worried cuz honestly, i have next to no experience and most girls i meet have a lot, or a normal amount.

for all the ladies out there, what do you think? do women prefer guys with the experience who know what they're doing? it is better to just be up front and honest about it and work from there? sometimes i feel like just getting it out of the way and hooking up with some of the trashiest sluts i know to gain the experience, but i really don't think that's the way. i kinda want it to be better than that. my problem isn't getting the girl, it's what to do when i have her lol.

if you can understand and offer any advice or anything, thanks. maybe i'm just making too big a deal out of things

i don't know i'm so fucking confused sometimes!! thanks for listening!

Captain Jack Sparrow Reviewed by Captain Jack Sparrow on 08-01-2007. virgin problems okay, this may sound stupid but to me the sexuality forums here seem to give the most best and honest advice/answers/experience out there. that being said, i'm 20 years old and am still a virgin. i've been with probably 5 or 6 different girls throughout my teen years and until now and i've done light stuff but not alot, most of the stuff was the opposite sex going down on me, etc. i never really returned the favor 'cause i didn't have to lol. well anyways, i'm kind of self-conscious Rating: 5

[rebgirl420]

Just be honest about it. And if she laughs at you or whatever then you wouldnt wanna sleep with or get into a relationship with her anyway.

[LuckyG]

I agree with rebgirl.

You know, I think that these 20-something-year-old virgin posts are the most common type of posts in the Sexuality forum.

[FreshNugz]

be honest. Tell her. If she chooses to help ya out...let her. If not, Reb is right....she's prolly a bitch who isn't worth the time.
Sluts won't pay attention, and will most likely be turned off. But the majority of nice girls would be willing to ease you into it I bet :thumbsup:

Thing is, sounds like you're just gonna go out and find a girl and do that right away. I recommend finding a girl...and casually seeing her and spending time together for a couple dates. She may even appreciate that you didn't try it right away, lol. Once you have spent some time with her, then the time should come...that way you have a little comfort, and can explain your situation.
Good luck:smokin:

[420MissHighTimes420]

be honest, i would almost find it hot having a guy with no experience how i could well ... trian lol. be pretty fun too.

[da dubs]

Just be honest about it. And if she laughs at you or whatever then you wouldnt wanna sleep with or get into a relationship with her anyway.

if and when this time comes,your most likely going to like the person not just do it for the sake of it..
tell her she will appricate it,,

best of luck..
if you were in europe,i would send you to amsterdam.. :rastasmoke:

[GraziLovesMary]

All the advice here is spot on. Ive noticed alot of girls like the idea of "breaking" a virgin. Like Rebgirl said, be honest. Allow the conversation to steer towards sex and tell her whats up. Dont be nervous about it, you got a 50-50 chance (to be honest I think your odds are MUCH better) that she will be turned on by it and want to fuck you that much sooner.

Another thing.. you mention you didnt go down on the girls because you didnt have to. If you want the most out of your sexual endeavors, I would suggest WANTING to eat women out. Its one of my favorite things in the world to do, and BELIEVE ME, its payed off 100fold. Think countless threesomes with your girlfriend and her best friend. No strings attached, no bad feelings.. just countless episodes of hours of hot sweaty sex because you are a giver. And when guys are givers.. women are more inclined to give back even more.

Anyways I probably shouldnt have flooded you with all that shit, that will come in time. Just be cool, dont be nervous and dont sweat about bein a virgin or telling girls that you are.

Oh, and... learn to eat the pussy and LOVe it lol.

[LuckyG]

Apparently a good recipe for pussy taste is tofu, pineapple juice and salt. So, like, if you ever want to learn to aquire a taste, there you go.


Sometimes I really, really don't want to remember where I learned the things I know.

[ScaryMissMary]

Everyone is right, just be honest from the get go. I can tell you right now she will probably get so turned on knowing that she could teach you all of those things. Especially if shes got a dominant streak about her.

[GraziLovesMary]

Haha see?? ^^ told ya so

EDIT: Oh and apparantly I love you, Miss Mary lmao