First are you sure you want to be with a girl who you dated for 2.5 yrs and then dumped you through a text??? Anyways .... I'm sorry to hear all of that man. Nothing is worse then being broken up with I do think you should go talk to her, when I was going to break up with my last boyfriend, I went and talked to him in person and we decided to stay together - not right away but the second time i saw him acutally.-- Also it will go miles if you would be willing to pawn something just to go see her. Tell her your willing to do whatever it takes to keep her. Have her give you two weeks to show her things will improve. But hey if it's meant to be over, it will be over and there isn't anything you can do about it. Maybe there is something going on with her that she doesn't want to be so serious with someone anymore. Becuase sorry she sounds pretty immature. I don't know. But if things do end --even though I know it seems impossible -- you can't let yourself get to upset over it. Your the same wonderful person with or with out her, so go out and look for a new girl and you will get over her in time. sorry i pry wasn't of much help. but hey i tryed lol. good luck with everything

edit: I was just re reading what I wrote and I dont think you should go pawn something just for her if she doesnt even respect you enough to break up with you in person after that long .... i know its hard i was goign to dump someone on the phone and everyone here helped me see that i should do it in person, but come on now, like did she care enough to at least call and tell you? i dont think she is worth you pawning something.
sorry its early and im baked as hell so i might sound dumb :stoned: