Quote Originally Posted by LazySmoking420
I don't sleep around much but I did have a one night stand a few days ago with a 20 year old College girl. I'm 21. We met at a party my friend invited me too. She had the hots for me right out of the gate. We started talked and ended up having some protected sex. It was great. I thought we had something going here maybe atleast a friendship with benefits.

The next few days pass and I still cannot get her out of my mind.. I'm starting to really like this girl. I end up seeing her again and she totally flips on me. "We shouldn't of had sex, I really like you but I'm seeing someone right now."

Which is fine, I didnt expect anything from her but I'm kickin' myself for falling for her and getting the heartache that comes along with it.

how many one night stands have you had?

how do I have a one night stand with a hot girl and NOT get attached mentally?
Prepare yourself mentally before-hand. Just make sure you dont try and kid yourself like everybody in the world thinks they can do. If you start feelin for her after the fact, slap yourself, drop the thought forcefully and occupy your mind with something else. Immerse yourself in a movie or the internet, go to the gym, hang out with friends.. but dont, for the love of God, let yourself fall for a one-night-stand again. If you dont think you can fuck like that without catching feelings, I would advise against going through with it.