One-night stands

[jdub61]

What happens if she is worth it?

then you're going about this all wrong and you shouldn't have fucked her if you're looking for a long-term relationship. nothing wrong with one-night-stands, but that's all they are, bubba.

and like fakeboobsrule said, just go out again this weekend and by the end of the night you'll have forgotten all about her. :thumbsup:

[higher4hockey]

how do you not get attached to a one night stand? practice.

[locomark]

Well LazySmoking420,

Every time you get a new piece bang like you'll never get it again. But what do I know?

Loco

[BabyFacedAbortion]

I've had one, one night stand and that's all it was. I was baked beyond belief and he was drunk out of his mind. I was on a cruise, I hardly knew him, I think his name was Adam..or Alex..

I dunno, one night stands suck. I felt dirty as hell when that was over with, I don't even know how it happened.

How to not get attached? Don't ask her name. Hahah. No but seriously, go into the sex thinking "this is just sex" and stop all the emotions in the beginning.

I'm sorry that she flipped on you, she shouldn't be sleeping around if she's "seeing someone".

[higher4hockey]

another thing to think about mate, is if she's giving it up on the first night, would you really want to date her? i dont date girls that i sleep with within the first few hours of knowing.

[420MissHighTimes420]

I'm not sure if the ones I had actually count or not. Both of them are like exactly the same ... first time was with this kid i went out with at the end of 9th grade, i was obssessed with him and he ended up breaking up with me for this complete skank whore, no one understood it she is trashy, ugly and rude, Im not being cocky but I am far from any of those descriptions. Now im working myself up and it was like 4 years ago ahaha .... um so he ended up cheating on her with me a bunch of times (bc idk how he would want to have sex with her, and i had no respect for myself at the time) and all we did was have oral. but then one night after we hadnt hooked up for like 6 months or so i was drunk and called him over and we fucked. he lasted two minutes lol ... so that was done. the other one, was when i cheated on my bf :-( we used to go out --the summer after 9th grade when i was broken up with the other kid -- and we've been friends, and i havent hooked up with him since then, and we got drunk together and i slept with him. he keeps trying to do it again, but i have a bf and he has a gf so thats not going to happen.
would those count? bc i only slept with each of them once, and we didnt hook up for months before or after? hmmm

[420MissHighTimes420]

then you're going about this all wrong and you shouldn't have fucked her if you're looking for a long-term relationship. nothing wrong with one-night-stands, but that's all they are, bubba.

and like fakeboobsrule said, just go out again this weekend and by the end of the night you'll have forgotten all about her. :thumbsup:

:thumbsup: yessss Don not have a one night stand if thas what you want. i do it too, i think if a guy sleeps with me he will want to be with me forever, but really it just makes them not respect me, and makes them think they can get it and only it whenever they want.

[GraziLovesMary]

Personally, Ive had girls and women throw themselves at me for all of my adult, and most of my life before as well. Its not as enjoyable as I once thought it would be. Men want what they cant have, true, and if its so easy that all I have to do is say "yes" to somebody who is asking me to have sex with them, whats the enjoyment in that? I want sex that is meaningful, its more than just a physical act for me. If I want to bust a nut I can beat off.

I want a woman to make me chase her, while showing interest at the same time. If I say something slightly randy and I havent known you that long, feign mock offense.. be classy.. make me wait. It will be worth it to me, and lord have mercy will it be worth it to her.

However, Im beginning to think that this is the wrong point in my life for a relationship. I think Ill just keep doing what I have been doing lately.. rolling along into the lives of whatever female or females need me at the time, then moving along when my work is done. I dont think sex would be a good idea though.. they will catch feelings and I dont want to break hearts.

Wait.. did I just hijack a thread??? I dont know where Im going with this or even where it came from lol

[jdub61]

:thumbsup: yessss Don not have a one night stand if thas what you want. i do it too, i think if a guy sleeps with me he will want to be with me forever, but really it just makes them not respect me, and makes them think they can get it and only it whenever they want.

yep, because you have to ask yourself... if i have sex with the person i'm supposedly gonna date for a long time on the first night that i meet him/her... where's the relationship gonna go from there?

[LuckyG]

I don't sleep around much but I did have a one night stand a few days ago with a 20 year old College girl. I'm 21. We met at a party my friend invited me too. She had the hots for me right out of the gate. We started talked and ended up having some protected sex. It was great. I thought we had something going here maybe atleast a friendship with benefits.

The next few days pass and I still cannot get her out of my mind.. I'm starting to really like this girl. I end up seeing her again and she totally flips on me. "We shouldn't of had sex, I really like you but I'm seeing someone right now."

Which is fine, I didnt expect anything from her but I'm kickin' myself for falling for her and getting the heartache that comes along with it.

This is exactly why I plan on not ever doing a one-night stand. My conscience wouldn't let me forget it, and I'd probably end up falling for the girl anyways. I'm easily confused when it comes to love.

In the end, GraziLovesMary says the truth:

I want sex that is meaningful, its more than just a physical act for me. If I want to bust a nut I can beat off.

Speaking of which, it's been a couple of days. Cheers! :jointsmile: