Young Girls, Older men. Keeping it in the family.

[Spoken Word]

What the fuck. I just heard the latest gossip from the Family Grapevine and it's a sick little peice of info. Well, sick to me anyway.
The same girl i grew up with. she was always around in my childhood and we were and are very close. but she's not blood. she's 2 years younger than me. She's one of those girls that think they're the coolest thing since sliced bread so I don't let my attraction show, at all. She already told me of her sleeping with a very distant cousin(almost a friend of the family) of mine after they hung out with her sister at a bar. Which was a whole big thing when it happend. Now, she turned 18 and she tells me she's been going out with a very close cousin of ours. for three months. I don't blame her. They are both very good-looking guys and have A LOT of money. And she is not blood-related with anyone of us. I blame the fuckin guys. this is the same girl they saw as a child and now are having sex with her???? that's nasty to me. If I was 35 and I had lots of money, I would not even think about having sexual relationships with girls.

sorry for the rant, I just had to let it out.
have a nice day.

Spoken Word Reviewed by Spoken Word on 07-29-2007. Young Girls, Older men. Keeping it in the family. What the fuck. I just heard the latest gossip from the Family Grapevine and it's a sick little peice of info. Well, sick to me anyway. The same girl i grew up with. she was always around in my childhood and we were and are very close. but she's not blood. she's 2 years younger than me. She's one of those girls that think they're the coolest thing since sliced bread so I don't let my attraction show, at all. She already told me of her sleeping with a very distant cousin(almost a friend of the Rating: 5

[420_24/7]

dude u wouldnt think of having sex with any girls, that would suck

[Professor Dan K.]

when you say you didnt let your attraction show.. does that mean you like her?

if so talk to her and ask her whats up, whys she foolin around with those guys when theres people around her age who might actually care for her (you possibly) and not just want a young piece of ass.

i find that communication is the best way to share others thoughts.. yet it can be at times the hardest thing for someone to initiate.

[Spoken Word]

No, just a physical attraction. She has the body and face. VERY pretty. But it ends there, she's too "fake" for me to be attracted to her.
And I've said that plenty of times to her, she shouldn't waste her time with older guys and she should focus on a real relationship but it goes in one ear and out the other.
She says that she's young and she's having fun.
She tells me uses protection.

she doesn't love him, he doesn't love her. there's no love. if there was love, i'd be all for it but to me it's just nasty that this very mature male is having sex with someone he remembers as a child....and still is a child compared to his 35 years. *shutters*

[rebgirl420]

i dont think age has anything to do with alot of relationships. My fiance is 7 years older than me actually and its wonderful.

[Psycho4Bud]

i dont think age has anything to do with alot of relationships. My fiance is 7 years older than me actually and its wonderful.

I'm 45 and my lady is 24......we got the same interests and it's all good. Age shouldn't matter........

Have a good one!:jointsmile:

[slipknotpsycho]

well.. i was 15 when i got with my wife, at the time she was 20....

i don' think age should dictate 'love' exclusively....

it's really more about maturity then age anyways.... i've seen some 30 year olds who act/think like they're 15... and i've seen 16 year olds who show more maturity then a 40 year old.....

[Chronisseur]

My last girlfriend was 5 yrs older chronologically...10 years YOUNGER emotionally

. is, #'s dont matter. and I do kinda hear what you're saying (except for being 35 w lots o $ and not thinking about having sex w GIRLS? :wtf

.....anyways, good luck!

[Ganj]

No, just a physical attraction. She has the body and face. VERY pretty. But it ends there, she's too "fake" for me to be attracted to her.
And I've said that plenty of times to her, she shouldn't waste her time with older guys and she should focus on a real relationship but it goes in one ear and out the other.
She says that she's young and she's having fun.
She tells me uses protection.

she doesn't love him, he doesn't love her. there's no love. if there was love, i'd be all for it but to me it's just nasty that this very mature male is having sex with someone he remembers as a child....and still is a child compared to his 35 years. *shutters*

I know what you mean. She already has a big head. You're doing the right thing by choosing not to inflate it anymore.

[cannabis campbell]

Well 18 and 34 is a pretty big age gap but i mean as long as their not blood related and shes 18 (some people might think its sick) but that really just comes down to opinion no one is breaking the law but i think the main thing is that as long as they love each other then there is nothing wrong with that at all.

However if she is simply just going out with him because of his money and hes simply with her for the sex and that is pretty sick but if thats the case i bet they both know what they are doing, you might aswell let them get on with it, theyre not breaking the law and shes doing what she wants.