I think you need to step up to the plate and make some sort of commitment in either asking her out or not....and try doing the whole follow through as well.....like actually calling her and actually taking her out. "Yeah, i'll probably go?" Wow, that would sure make me feel wanted. OR..."she didn't seem enthusiastic enough so I just didn't call her" Another good thought....your dates don't even get to open their mouths and already you're making judgments about what they think while playing the same game yourself by not stating what you mean and bs'ing around yourself.

If you want to know what she is thinking.....ask her. Then put yourself on the line and tell HER straight up what you think That's how real relationships are done.