Ok.....here's what you do. Find something you know she likes.....tickets to a certain concert or whatever (make sure it's something you enjoy as well in case she turns you down). Then you go to her and ask her to go.....no fudging, no maybes, no "if you don't have anything better to do" baloney. Would you like to do this? I heard you were a fan (or whatever works there). Don't improvise, lose your nerve, or figure out what she's thinking......just straight up ask.

If she says yes, there you go and no backing out. If she says no, find another lucky friend to go with. That's the best you can do.

Good luck
Weedhound Reviewed by Weedhound on . Mixed Signals So I met a girl about a month/6 weeks ago at my place of work, and pretty much from the moment we met we hit it off (friends or something more i don't know..). I won't go on about it too much as I made a thread a few weeks ago about this but now some time has gone on I'm getting a little confused. We've been getting along great and I've had people ask me about whether we're an item or whatever, so I don't think I'm imagining the signals she gives off (she casually touches me alot, tells Rating: 5