Well we'd both be leaving in september (university for both of us) so that wouldn't be an issue I don't think. There has been some good-natured gossip i suppose but it's only a part-time job for both of us anyway so as you said i could easily leave if i needed to.

I agree it doesn't sound too promising but I know that i can be aloof to the point of being unapproachable sometimes, and this has stopped me from getting together with girls before because they took it in the wrong way..Saying that, it doesn't mean that that is what this girl is thinking.

Thanks for your input