Quote Originally Posted by birdgirl73
I think it's a sweet, gentlemanly gesture just like the offer to light a lady's cigarette or hold out a chair. Problem is, there are so many young women nowadays who've never seen such offers extended that such gentle chivalry takes them by surprise and makes them feel like they're being condescended to instead of pampered.

I think it's lovely when either gender extends a courtesy to the other, whether it's fetching a drink, serving a plate, opening a door or lighting something to be lit. I confess that when men hold my chair out for me or hold doors open, I find that very charming and sexy. I'm an old lady, though, so I remember when that was standard operating behavior.
See I agree with you, except for the fact that Ive witnessed her situation many times. Sometimes it is the guy trying to be chivalrous, and other times it is the guy being impatient and wanting to do it himself because he is obsessive and has no faith in her abilities. Seeing as how I wasnt there I cant really guess which one it was, but she seems to get the impression it was the latter.

Oh well!