Ato answer the original question... sorry girl, I'm not quite sure how it's happening,but it's never been an issue for me.I usually have a group of people around when we're smoking so.....whoever owns the pot loads the bowl...we all share cuz we don't always have it at the same time.It's nothing that's ever come up.i don't help myself to someone else's weed.If I have the bag and don't feel like loading it,I'll ask someone to do it.Just kinda a stoner's ettiquette thing.I've also been asked to load by other people.You can tell whoever politely "no I got this Thanks" and smile. But keep the look in your eyes that says "Don't touch my weed Jackass!!!" LOL