some people just dont click and can take years before you realize no matter how much you love that person it just isnt going to happen, nor will it ever happen.

my girlfriend and I have been together for 5yrs now and we had lots of great and bad times but its all in how both of you take things together and as a single person, we have lots of things in common which helps greatly in the beginning but its who you are in the end the is the most important.

maybe that person you were with didnt know who they were inside and couldnt understand why someone would love someone like that, people are weird when it comes to relationships and dont always think how the other person will feel or even how they feel when something goes wrong.

i luckily have a great relationship but it was hard to build it to where it is now, my past relationships were horrible and took a long time to figure out lots of things about myself and what i wanted out of a relationship and that other person as a whole, takes time and alot of hurt feelings sometimes to be a better person.