If you want to save yourself from a lot of heartache, then find the one who is perfect for you. Seems obvious enough, right? Apparently I'm a dumbass. I have a question for those in a functional, generally good relationship, and that is:

Do you learn anything about yourself from someone who is perfect for you? I'm a firm believer that misery provokes the instinct to learn. How can you learn anything if you're blinded by love? And how can you love if you're always miserable?

We all have someone in our lives that brings out the worst in us. That person makes us absolutely miserable until we evolve beyond the need for that. Ultimately, you'll leave the person to embark on your new adventure. Is that when you find the right person? Or find a different person who teaches you something different about yourself (makes you miserable for different reasons)? There's no way of knowing what is in store for our future.

I hear it all the time. Couples who have broken apart because they realize they're not right for each other. There's no way they could have prevented that. But what does it teach us about the relationship at it's beginning? Why did it take two years for one to realize that? Hence the phrase, "a fool in love." Now is a good time to point out that the phrase should have ended at "a fool."

And if we are merely fools in the game of love, then misery is inevitable, and so is learning. Why can't we see the obvious? What is the ultimate goal of our unconscious mind I wonder? I believe it's goal is to make the information conscious. It's goal is to make the information tangible by the cruelest means, hence drama.

And no one knows why we perpetually choose the wrong people. Could it be that we simply do not want to be alone in life? We could save ourselves and others from much heartache if we did not desire companionship. The most selfless act one can make is giving up on love.
Ganj Reviewed by Ganj on . Speculating the importance of compatible personalities If you want to save yourself from a lot of heartache, then find the one who is perfect for you. Seems obvious enough, right? Apparently I'm a dumbass. I have a question for those in a functional, generally good relationship, and that is: Do you learn anything about yourself from someone who is perfect for you? I'm a firm believer that misery provokes the instinct to learn. How can you learn anything if you're blinded by love? And how can you love if you're always miserable? We all have Rating: 5