I didn't read through the entire thread, but Melkane, it sounds to me like you have a pretty negative attitude towards a lot of stuff, including any helpful suggestions from fellow forum members. Women pick up on that kind of thing pretty quick, and I wouldn't doubt that's half of the reason why they aren't into you.

My thoughts? Do what I did - stop caring about getting laid, and get out there and do things that make you feel good. Turn off your TV and try exercising, getting a hobby, eating healthier or less. Clean up your place, throw out stuff you don't like or are just keeping for sentimental value, rearrange your furniture, build up a wardrobe that you like. Keep a positive outlook on life. Don't spend all your time damning yourself for your faults, and try to minimize or eliminate them. Set goals or challenges and try to achieve them. Soon you'll be feeling great about yourself, and it'll be apparent to the people around you too.

Just my two cents. :twocents: