nearly every post above this seems to agree you cant expect to draw in the women without effort, so perhaps there is somthing to this? It doesnt take alot to lose weight. I used to be overweight in HS, but as a junior i decided to do some weightlifting (nothing serious, just like 45 min every other night) and didnt even do any cardio (i hate running), but the main thing is changing how you eat.

It isnt just about losing weight either, how do you think all those twinkies and mountain dew affect your body? thats what everyone is talking about in terms of respecting your body.

I managed to lose 30 lbs in NO TIME just by eating healthy and doing a little weight training. It isnt hard, i promise you. Just try to cut out sugar, simple carbs, and fatty foods. Try cooking chicken breast instead of steak. Turkey burgers instead of hamburgers. Make a high protein fruit smoothie in the morning instead of pancakes. The main thing though is there is NO DOWNSIDE! eating healthy will improve every aspect of your life. You can still game and do whatever else you want, just eat healthy and spend 1/24th of your day, every other day, excercising.

remember, nothing tastes as good as being healthy feels.