Quote Originally Posted by LegalizeTheGreen
i have to say, being overweight, while not always a factor, will reduce your chances. if you arn't willing to make the needed changes, then thats your choice, so you cant complain about the results.
I thought that if you find someone that truly loves you for you they'd look past such "superficial" things? The fact is if I were to alter my life to get into shape that would be such a drastic change that it would be changing who I am. Period. The things I do and enjoy have the drawback and to get into shape I'd have to completely stop them or drastically cut back. Sorry I'm not going to change everything about me just to get someone else to like me. And if I can't simply be myself and that be enough then I have EVERY right to complain.

also, you are retarted
"retarded" ..found that ironic.

if you are requiring your women to be into everything you are into. thats unrealistic, and also pretty sad if you would dismiss a potential canidate (particularly in your situation) just because you dont share all the same like and dislikes.
She doesn't need to be into EVERYTHING I'm into, but if a relationship has ANY hope of being something longlasting we have to have something in common that we enjoy doing together. A relationship built solely on attraction and sex while likely fun for the short term isn't going to be some life long thing. Eventually the excitement would end and then it would be two people with nothing in common. You strip away the attraction bullshit and if there is nothing else there then there is nothing there to begin with.

The fact is I spend pretty much all my time as a gamer or movie buff. That's what I know, that's what I can talk about for any length of time. I frankly am going to HAVE to have a woman that is either a gamer or movie buff themselves.

I feel for you, but you cant expect shit to just happen for you, it requires effort.
So your saying unless I "make an effort" and change everything about myself and fall for any female on two legs regardless of common likes/dislikes then I can't expect anything to happen? I find that highly flawed and likely reason for such a high divorce rate these days.