lol excuses... man i was once in the 150lbs overweight club... women never looked at me, but maybe every 1000 years, and then only out of pity... i was very bitter just like you man... very jaded... thought JUST like you

BUT, you have to pay to play... i started making healthy changes to my life... started looking better, my confidence went up... and i found what kind of woman i really like, and what kind i attract, and ect... i am by no means in a long lasting relationship... i am single right now... but thanks to several years of dating and playing the field, and not too mention making a fool out of myself... i don't worry about women anymore... i don't wait for anyone... i just go about my life, and enjoy the company of many women.

i am proud of the changes i have made, how i look, and who i am. i know there is better looking, and blah blah blah... but i kick ass and it was all my hard work that made it happen.

i say quit living unhealthy... of course it is easier that way... but so what that is irresponsible and lazy... and that is why thinner people stay away from overweight... most overweight people are lazy and irresponsible... not too mention the social problems it can create (jaded john syndrome)

i don't want to talk too much about my real life, but i do this shit for a living man... but you either want to get into the game or not... you sound scared to compete for women... which is what it is... and you mention that women should think this way blah blah blah... everyone has to be sexually attracted to their mate... or sexually attracted to something about them (money is a popular choice)...

not pickin on you, i just think you should give your pecker a chance... just remember, it doesn't matter how small it is... if she uses a dildo too... lo