Quote Originally Posted by thcbongman
What do you have to stop? I'm not telling you to stop anything. I'm suggesting you add. It doesn't require drastic changes. Baby steps man. Going for the moon will end up in failure. Bit by bit, build it up.

Sure a person eventually has to love you for who you are, but first you have to draw them in with some attraction. That's why it's important to look good, and show you take care of yourself. How are you expected to take care of a woman if you can't take care of yourself?

Something to ponder.

You have an animal inside you, you have to let out at some point.
exactly, I only approach hot guys because why approach a ugly guy when the good looking ones might have a good personality? I know it sounds shallow but fuck it ... i wouldnt want to date an ugly guy because i dont have to , there are a ton of good looking guys with great personalities so why settle for less?
if you start to care more about ur apprence you will be able to approach more women and more will approach you. you need that whole package.