i have to say, being overweight, while not always a factor, will reduce your chances. if you arnt willing to make the needed changes, then thats your choice, so you cant complain about the results.

also, you are retarted if you are requiring your women to be into everything you are into. thats unrealistic, and also pretty sad if you would dismiss a potential canidate (particularly in your situation) just because you dont share all the same like and dislikes.

I feel for you, but you cant expect shit to just happen for you, it requires effort.