Quote Originally Posted by Melkane
Well as old as I am, I've heard the pep talks and motivation speeches plenty of times. I found the motivation to quit smoking cigarettes because I really didn't like smoking and I didn't like how it was making me feel. However my weight problems stem from the types of foods I love and the hobbies I enjoy and I'm unwilling to give them up or drastically reduce them. I've never minded being overweight though since I quit smoking my weight skyrocketed upwards and while I'm definitely not happy with my current weight I don't see much I could do about it without changing my whole lifestyle around. I would love to lose about 100lbs. but it most likely never will happen. Besides I've seen plenty of fat guys get women.

The environment in which I would meet a woman is important to me, I don't want a "party girl". I hate parties and large amounts of socializing for the most part. Meeting some girl at party is likely to lead to a bad fit as most likely any woman I meet at said event went there because they like them. In reality the woman I need is going to have to be into the same stuff I am, gaming, movies, tv etc...and it's highly doubtful I'm going to see that woman at a party or at the bar or some place like that.


What's that intended to mean? :wtf:

I've never really got into online dating, I mean I've just considered them to be big scams for the most part. The few people that say they've had success with them I chalk up to pure luck.
What about an empathetic "party girl?" Would that better suit you?