21-Year-Old Virgin - Normal?

[420Cat]

Your not getting any younger.
Who's the right person? The one you like that says yes. That's the special someone.

[5016169]

normal

[OLDE ENGLISH '800]

everyone has a differnt opinion on whats norml

[GraziLovesMary]

no probs... look how many threads similar to this there are. It really doesnt matter how old you are when a virgin.. .if you find somebody that means alot to you they wont care. If you wanna lose your virginity before that, there are alot of people of either sex that would be GLAD to help you out (breaking a virgin). So... if you are proactive enough, you will achieve whatever ends you are searching for. Nuff said.

[5016169]

Now that you are older, some women think of it as a challenge to sleep with you. That is unless you don't take care of your body, then that's a totally different story and you should go to bunnyranch.com or something and get some

[Boo360]

This may not help with the main topic and all but I was 13 when I lost mine but I really do regret it but I think if I had the chance I would do it all over again because it got me ready when I got back with a girl who I had knew for 8 years and we decided to have sex. I ended up giving her the first orgasm she had ever been given (She had been with like 2 other guys) which I attribute to my first experience, I was taught plenty. Anyways it always got better.

Guess what I'm trying to say is that its always good to wait and don't ever be ashamed.

[JoeBear]

There isn't anything wrong with being a virgin. I was 30 when I married my husband and I was still a virgin. Thanks to my dad who was fantastic at discussing the pros of guns when ever guys came to see me.

[rollinhigh06]

lol now you sound like a Female. Trust me, fuck someone Insignificant so that when you have sex with a girl that you like not only physically or mentally, you can rock her socks off.

Theres nothing special about your first time, its not magical, Its sweaty, sticky and fun all at once, fuck the romance.

You have the rest of your life to be Romantic with your wife, just get er done :rastasmoke:

I agree man, get er done!

Life is too short, you're only going to be full of so much energy for so long. You're in your prime. In another 10 years you'll be tied down and more then likely you won't be able to have as much fun.

I'm 19 and I was a late starter, I lost my virginity a few months ago to my ex, she wasn't a virgin. I deff recommend banging a girl that isn't a virgin, because she will know what to do and will help you and you will feel more comfrontable.
The 1st time is nothing special, matter of fact the first couple of times kinda aren't all that special, its only gets better though.

Find a girl thats a whore, but not a real whore! lol
Certain girls will be easier to get in bed and thats what you want, because you don't want to be pressured and feel stressed when you're with a girl that you really love and wanna impress.
My ex told me that she only had one orgasm before she was with me and in the two months we were together we had sex a couple of times a day and I gave her many orgasms. So as a newb, I wasn't too bad.
So what I'm saying is sex isn't hard, and its definitely not rocket science.

Just do your thing bro and go to it when you feel like you're ready :jointsmile:

[ganjzilla]

yeah ive heard of ppl past 21 that are still virgins, didnt happen to me, but just hang in there and like in 40 yr old virgin, get ya bout 30-40 "hood rats" then when u get with someone you care about ull be grand

[Spoken Word]

as long as you dont have mother issues. none of that "a boy's best friend is his mother" stuff...as long as its not that...its normal.

Hmm.. i dunno about all that. My mother is my best friend. always was and always will be. and that has never affected my relationships. infact, all my girlfriends have had a STRONG relationship with her. it's kind of annoying actually.

towards the OP.
man, certain girls love that shit. they cream for virgins because to them, you are clean and you can be "trained" sexually.
I don't think they would believe you, honestly.

all you have to do, if you want, is start socializing. please don't think your looks or your style of dress has ANYTHING to do with your social skills.
it seems hard now but once you realize that females are just as nervous, if not MORE....it's easy.


read around this forum.. there is plenty of good advice.. im sure someone else has given you great advice in this thread.

but in my opinion... your virginity can be useful. to honest girls.

of course if you are going after a sexually talented female, she wants a man that knows what he's doing. but i'd steer away from those types of girls, they are trouble. lol