Also currently a twenty-one year old virgin. Also used to have poor social skills. I think the wait was probably good for me - I know who I am, and I know what I want, which means I'm not going to waste a lot of time bouncing from girl to girl trying to find the one that's "right for me". I don't think there's really a limitation on one single girl who'll be "right" though - people change, chances are after a few years we'll move on to other people. Who knows, I haven't even held hands with a girl so I'm basically talking out of my ass on this.

Quote Originally Posted by slipknotpsycho
the ONLY reason i think sex might be best only when you're married/serious to the person is becuase that person will be on your mind for ever.... literally... it should really be someone special.... not some chick you hooked up with at the bar..
A few people I know who screwed around a lot have said that it's good that I'm waiting for someone special. Of course, when I asked if they'd change their past if they could, they said no. Mixed messages and double standards don't do much for me.

Hm, I'm cynical tonight.