I was a 21 year old virgin, but out of choice. I actually lost it about a month ago to my current g/f of 2 months. I have had other oppurtunities, but I really care about my gf, and thats what really matters. fuck people with their "It aint special", but also fuck people that make too big of a deal. Your first time will be fun, but not amazing. Dont hold out forever, but dont rush into it. pace yourself, and when you find a girl you care about, go for the gold.