frustrated

[Ganj]

I have a tough time managing my frustration. I hear communication is a good step to managing uncomfortable situations. Good, clear communication though. You could scream until you're blue in the face and he still wouldn't get it.

[thoughtwriter]

he knew, i told him before he went to a meeting, the fromt he meeting, he went straight to the alley
but eh, im done being upset about it...waste of energy

[rebgirl420]

Im sorry hun. Luckily my fiance knows his role. He's not allowed anywhere without calling me. Hell, he doesnt even like to be alone so I get dragged along to everywhere he wants to go. The only time were not together is when I shake him loose to go get my nails done. And THEN he begs to go with me.

[Ganj]

he knew, i told him before he went to a meeting, the fromt he meeting, he went straight to the alley
but eh, im done being upset about it...waste of energy

Sounds like you just wanted a little bit of recognition for your efforts. And that's not too much to ask for. Don't you worry yourself though, because there are many women out there whose efforts are overlooked. Fight the good fight and you'll be a-OK!

[spliffstar22]

i can't believe that, what man in their right mind turns down fuckin BBQ, shit, I'd be there early, with a fat blunt, ready to eat some bombbbbbb munchies lol

[thoughtwriter]

lol...thanks guys...i swear, i smoke a bowl with all you's!!!...but my hubby dont smoke, so i could see where he wouldn't be that hungry, lol

[Breukelen advocaat]

i don't understand my husband...or men in general for that matter...
When i make plans to make him a nice bbq dinner on his half day off....instead of coming home he goes to the bowling alley...then comes home and goes straight to bed at 8pm.
whats up with that...im not even mad, more sad or hurt
sorry in needed that get that out...

His "half-day off"? Is this to say that he works six and a half days a week? If so do you work also, outside of the home?

[thoughtwriter]

yes, but i dont have a 'normal' job...lol, i do promotional/modeling work, so i get 'gigs'...if the works not there....im usually at home...also, i do catering on the side

[Ganj]

lol...thanks guys...i swear, i smoke a bowl with all you's!!!...but my hubby dont smoke, so i could see where he wouldn't be that hungry, lol

I'm gonna hold you to that smoke. :jointsmile: