Well, I think that the sites themselves are pretty stealthy, they don't write whats in the package (EDIT), but customs does. I have ordered from both sites, the order from grasscity had what was in it written on it, but from reviews on the site and from friends they will usually write acrylic vase or something like that. I guess its all up to luck, but the sites themselves are good about keeping whats inside the box private.