well i am 23 and this probably going to shock a few people but i have three beautifull children my eldest is 6 i had her when i was 16 i was in a secure relationship (so it seemed) at the time and also with an older man, i had our 2nd child when i was 19 hes now 4, when my son was 6 months old and daughter just under 3 their dad left me, there was nothing i could do apart from move on, i had my last child in april last year he just over a year old now, my kids amaze me and they are my world, i'd do anything for them, i chose to not leave a big gap between my kids ages i wanted them to be close and grow up together.

i sometimes feel despite my best efforts that i should have waited and got a career first as it would have made providing for my kids easier, however i didnt and i wouldnt be without my babies.