Sorry to hear that, I have some experience, I'm the disappointment in my family, I always get shit like, "-------- you'll never be anything" and "what do you think your going to when you're older" patronisingly, and my favourite, "soon you'll be out of this house" all by my dad, love him to bits but gets on my tits, I just be normal talk back to him try and prove my point at which he gets pissed off with similarly with yours, strange isn't it.