Yanno, I know how she feels right now. I've been there, I know the feeling after you get hit, I know the feeling after seeing your man up on some other girl's shit and I know the feeling of loving them to death even though both of those things had just happened.

What I would have wanted ANYONE to do for me when that shit happened to me, would be to be a genuine person, honestly care, honestly want my well being and not just some ass. You gotta stay her friend, whether it be because you want her or because she needs you (she may not know this yet but she does). She's in an abusive relationship and she's in the abused mindset and right now, she's not gonna dump him YET but the femi-nazi will come out (every chick has it) and she'll realize that he's not worth her time but YOU are. Just do sweet little things that'll get a smile and some reassurance that she doesn't deserve that crap from her BOY.

you're not just the "other man", and we're rooting for you, hon!