Okay here's the story:

I met a girl this weekend and I fell for her instantly.

Later that night I met her boyfriend and watched him hit her in the face and deny rubbing up on these 2 slutty girls despite everybody seeing it happen

This girl loves this guy more than anything else in the world and their 7 month anniversary just passed, with him waiting "only" until the last minute to make plans with her after saying he didn't know if he even was going to.

I want this girl badly. She knows how I feel about her boyfriend and I was the one by her side calming her down all night after that incident I mentioned. She says its unfortunate how strongly she feels towards him, and any ounce of affection he shows to her gets multiplied by 100 in her mind because he is such a dick.

I've been texting her a bit lately and talking to her on MSN (she's not on much) and she thinks I'm hilarious and wants to party with me and dye my hair too.

Finally my question: wtf do I do to get him out of the damn picture?

Badmouthing him barely works on her, she forgives him for all he does, even though I question his feelings for her I know he's the type of guy that would fight and fight and fight not to lose his girlfriend to another guy.

I am just afraid all I can do right now is play the part of the faithful friend, doing everything thats best for her and quietly waiting until they explode as a couple and seperate. I've been given advice already to just say fuck it and tell her how I feel but I'm afraid if I tell her on MSN/phone she won't wanna chill later and if I tell her in person I'm pretty sure her B/F would be there.

To be honest I don't expect miraculous advice here and I'm bracing myself for generic comments telling me to beat his ass in or sit her down and tell her how I feel. I guess 80% of this post is me venting and 20% is me reaching out for advice.

Got any?

You know he's not the one for you but that's no fault of mine.
He knows that I'm a friend of yours but doesn't know I've crossed the line.
I know you've got a man in the picture but it hasn't stopped me yet.
We've all been in one situation or another we regret.

Now I'm the other man, no one's rootin for me.
lagstronaut Reviewed by lagstronaut on . I'm the Other Man, No one's rootin for me Okay here's the story: I met a girl this weekend and I fell for her instantly. Later that night I met her boyfriend and watched him hit her in the face and deny rubbing up on these 2 slutty girls despite everybody seeing it happen This girl loves this guy more than anything else in the world and their 7 month anniversary just passed, with him waiting "only" until the last minute to make plans with her after saying he didn't know if he even was going to. I want this girl badly. She Rating: 5