You are so right jac, being a wiccan and pagan means that there are no right or wrong answers to things. Because it is a solitary path and you choose what you want to believe or not. Pretty much like the rule of three it can apply to you or not. Though it mostly applies to wiccans a religion created during the 1930's and 40's.

The reason why Christians borrowed so many pagan holidays and such is because most of the Pagans had converted into Christianity though they still practiced pagan traditions because Christianity was new back then (and a new religion you don't know the rules right?). Though some chose to stay true pagans.