Thank you,
I have to say it would never come down to losing my child, I do not believe my ex can take care of him by himself nor does his new wife want to either, it is truly about power, and authority, which I have never done well with, I sort of feel we are all equal, even if the work place, a boss does not need to treat the person under them any differently than they would the person above. He just likes to think he still controls me, and in all honesty he knows I enjoy marijuana, it is alot about being a pain in my ass enough so that I have to worry about drug tests and such, but I appreciate all the advice.