well most of the time the (good guy that will love and take care of his woman)is right there in front of them. and they always seem to look past him on to the model looking (hot guy).u know the one that is the way she speaks above^^. or the jock or what ever but the one that is the best friend the one that help the girl out all the time the one that sees the girl for who she is the one thats mad about the girls. are the ones that get pushed to the side cause there not cool enough or hot enough for the girl..at the moment.

so the girl gets with the hot jock sweet talking guys the ones that are the lazy bum wife beatin type. and then the girl wonders why?why is it not working? and by the time the girl understands life and has grown up it's most of the time to late. well not to late but shes not pure anymore thats for sure. not that anyone is these days. but if two people really fell in love would u not want the other to be as pure as they should be.

u know what i mean then she goes looking for the guy she passed by long ago. for safety and all the things she needs well more or less settling for the guy.and when a guy gets his heart broken really good then he's never really the same as he once was. and the way he looks at love.and 9 time outta 10 the guy starts out good faithful loving honest and when that happens sum of that goes out the window.so bottom line girls quit picking losers and then bitchin about it and most of the time u know when a guy is a big douche bag. and yet u still try to be with him in hopes u can (change him).well that never is the case now is it.and u can't change anybody they have to want it themselfs so...