i just have to ask... have you ever turned down a guy because he isn't 'hot'?

i've seen so many great men who know how to treat a woman right, but they get turned down simply because they don't fall into 'omg he's hot' catagorey...

also how long do you know said guys before dating them? alot of guys will act one way just to get with you, then they change to their real selves.... unless the guys pathetic if you've known them for years and he seems nice, he probably is.... the only real rememdy to the guys just trying to get in your pants is the waiting game... most fo the time if you wait long enough, they'll give up and move on to someone else...