I'm sick of the bullshit.

[O. G. ganja smoker]

girls = viciousness

[GraziLovesMary]

Yeah.. finding the right relationship can be a bitch. I met a girl that I REALLY liked, which surprised me because I wasnt even looking after my last girlfriend cheated on me. Anyways we started hanging out and talking.. I had never met anybody so perfect for me. Then she went back to her ex boyfriend and stopped calling me right before I moved halfway across the U.S. to live near her. Fuggit.. thats how shit rolls. I know god damn well that Im a good man, and an excellent catch relationship-wise. The only problem is.. Im not sure how many more times I can put myself on the line and trust another human being. The only person I am ever vulnerable to in any way is any female who is my significant other. As long as I dont have one, I am invulnerable. Might as well keep it like that. Maybe Ill get lucky and get drafted to Iraq that'll take the decision right the fuck out my hands!

[Jizzle Blizzle420]

sometimes i worry thats the only reason my bf is w. me ... i will have sex everyday and i also always have the best bud to smoke him up on. does he ever buy weed anymore? noooo
bastard

From what Ive just read it seems to me that you are perfect lol. Just kidding. Tell him to start buying the bud or no more hanky panky.

[Justinrg]

You sound like me ranting about my ex xP
Trust me, you will find a guy who appreciates you, and it'll be the best feeling ever =]

Just what I am saying.

[slipknotpsycho]

i just have to ask... have you ever turned down a guy because he isn't 'hot'?

i've seen so many great men who know how to treat a woman right, but they get turned down simply because they don't fall into 'omg he's hot' catagorey...

also how long do you know said guys before dating them? alot of guys will act one way just to get with you, then they change to their real selves.... unless the guys pathetic if you've known them for years and he seems nice, he probably is.... the only real rememdy to the guys just trying to get in your pants is the waiting game... most fo the time if you wait long enough, they'll give up and move on to someone else...

[palerider7777]

well most of the time the (good guy that will love and take care of his woman)is right there in front of them. and they always seem to look past him on to the model looking (hot guy).u know the one that is the way she speaks above^^. or the jock or what ever but the one that is the best friend the one that help the girl out all the time the one that sees the girl for who she is the one thats mad about the girls. are the ones that get pushed to the side cause there not cool enough or hot enough for the girl..at the moment.

so the girl gets with the hot jock sweet talking guys the ones that are the lazy bum wife beatin type. and then the girl wonders why?why is it not working? and by the time the girl understands life and has grown up it's most of the time to late. well not to late but shes not pure anymore thats for sure. not that anyone is these days. but if two people really fell in love would u not want the other to be as pure as they should be.

u know what i mean then she goes looking for the guy she passed by long ago. for safety and all the things she needs well more or less settling for the guy.and when a guy gets his heart broken really good then he's never really the same as he once was. and the way he looks at love.and 9 time outta 10 the guy starts out good faithful loving honest and when that happens sum of that goes out the window.so bottom line girls quit picking losers and then bitchin about it and most of the time u know when a guy is a big douche bag. and yet u still try to be with him in hopes u can (change him).well that never is the case now is it.and u can't change anybody they have to want it themselfs so...

[Gandalf_The_Grey]

At least you get it, no man in the world wants women for love its all about how fast you can get them into bed. Any man that says that's a lie, is a fucking lair.

In that case I must not live in this world. Maybe that's how men act in your area, maybe that's how most guys act in general, but I'm 22 years old and a virgin because the only opportunities I've had for sex were shallow girls looking for a quick fuck. And right now I've found the girl of my dreams, going to ask her out this weekend, and after knowing her for 2 years I never tried to get into her pants, nor do I want to be with her because I'm craving a good boffing. I want her, quite simply, because she has the most wonderful personality in the world and understands me.

[slipknotpsycho]

In that case I must not live in this world. Maybe that's how men act in your area, maybe that's how most guys act in general, but I'm 22 years old and a virgin because the only opportunities I've had for sex were shallow girls looking for a quick fuck. And right now I've found the girl of my dreams, going to ask her out this weekend, and after knowing her for 2 years I never tried to get into her pants, nor do I want to be with her because I'm craving a good boffing. I want her, quite simply, because she has the most wonderful personality in the world and understands me.

yeah i married my wife and have stayed with her for nearly 4 years now because i wanted to get her in bed and not cuz i loved her....

[JD1stTimer]

Slipknot, Palerider, Gandalf, props to you guys I'm in the same boat. Come on ladies, look at who you pick for relationship material. Guys like us are getting shafted, but our shaft isn't getting anything. lol. Sorry I'm smashed out of my mind. But seriously, COME ON (BTW, there are plenty of girls that I would be interested in even if they're not hot or whatever, but even they are looking for rich models that ride bikes or whatever who are assholes... just look for that guy who you think "Yeah, but he's just a good friend and romance would kill the friendship." There's the pot of gold hon. Seriously.

[Justinrg]

In that case I must not live in this world. Maybe that's how men act in your area, maybe that's how most guys act in general, but I'm 22 years old and a virgin because the only opportunities I've had for sex were shallow girls looking for a quick fuck. And right now I've found the girl of my dreams, going to ask her out this weekend, and after knowing her for 2 years I never tried to get into her pants, nor do I want to be with her because I'm craving a good boffing. I want her, quite simply, because she has the most wonderful personality in the world and understands me.

Glad it works for you, just wait until you realize your with her for the rest of your life, or what if your not sexually compatible? Props on it working for you but for about 95% of males it doesn't. Call it shallow, childish, and living in high school but it is embedded in the male brain to reproduce and have many sexual partners for the growth of the species. Learn human nature buddy.