Cheating BF

[stonerwall150]

Dump him... My ex gf cheated, and there was after break up sex, but then summer came and it was amazing to get away from them and fine someone else. move onto someone better.

[cannabisis4for20]

I'm a guy and the simple fact is that men want many women to satisfy there one need and women want one guy to satisfy their many needs. Which is fine, but if he wasn't upfront with you about that from the start then he cheated and you should dump him.

[cannabisis4for20]

Dude what planet are you from....I've had absolutely NOTHING wrong got along great always laughing and having fun....then the night I told him I was pregnant he screwed someone else.....It was his baby (had to prove that too) so don't be layin the blame of someone elses actions on the girl.If he was that unhappy....he should've left first....period.Cheating is BULL shit!! No reason to play games on anyone's heart. What I don't get is the guys that say "I love you with all my heart" then go out on you anyway,when there are no problems..It doesn't make sense.That tells me they obviously don't have a heart and don't know what love really is.... Love is trust and honesty and faithfulness.If you really love someone then you don't SEE anyone else and others should see couples as extensions of each person.My friends boyfriends and husbands are extensions of them and I have the hardest time even judging cuteness of them(when asked...).I don't see individuals....anyway, that's my 2 cents on it...

You can't blame him for wanting to sleep with other women. He wanted what he wanted. That's how you see a good relationship, many men don't see it that way. What you can blame him for is the fact that made a promise to you to give up all those other women for a relationship with you, then broke that promise.

[ScaryMissMary]

Fuck that shit.

[AR15]

Yup! caught my BF cheating Do you think " once a cheater always a cheater?"

Well seeing as you already made your decision this post doesn't really matter, but I'll post it anyways.

People will tell you a lot of different things about what you should do, just look at this thread. But know that everyone is different. Some people will change, some people will not, and all people can change. That's life though. You can't judge him on other peoples' experiences. You need to decide for yourself whether he deserves another chance or not.

I would say, think of every reason you would give him a chance. And decide whether you think he will change. If you're drawing blanks on why he should have another chance and/or if you don't think he will change for you, then it's over.

But remember, it's you alone who has to make the decision for yourself.

[rebgirl420]

Yeah screw him, you deserve better. Cut that fucker off like the cancerous limb he is. Once a cheater al,ways a cheater

[angee pirate]

I can honestly say I have never intentionally cheated on any of my past girlfriends, in most cases it was my girlfriends friends who made the first and second moves when I would drive them home from a party or something they would be all over my ass, a guy can only take so much rubbin and touchin

[locomark]

Well Cahenz,

I like the way you think. You put it all out there in plain English for the world to see but we are still misunderstood. Women with their fucking fairy tales of princes and perfect gentleman.

Partcleguy have you ever smoked a joint with a dutch man in the Red Light District? Well, I have had the pleasure multiple times. The dutch are rich from oldl money and masters at exploitation in any form. Now they have hundreds of women to please them on the way to or from work from all over the world. They have no problem stopping for a smoke a suck and fuck then a pleasant dinner with the wife. It's a different mindset.

Then again for them to put a brothel in the International Airport is different. But what do I know? I'm just another fucking retard.

Loco

[bcgirl]

Well no i wouldn't say dump him actually it depends was he drunk or what..

Also how long have you been together?

How did you catch him?

Do you think hes genuinely sorry?

I agree... there are definately things to account for b4 you make your decision.. my b/f cheated on me about a year ago and he was on drugs and drunk.. doesnt make it ok or make it not hurt... but i lovr him and forgave him and since we have been awesome! i didnt catch him tho... he came running to me and told me what he had done.. i gave him a lil leeway for the honesty.. anyways my point is no one can make the right decision for you only you know your b/f and not all men are the same as not all women are the same.... you should make the decision on your own