When I was younger in middle school right around your age, I had a huge crush on this girl , and we both liked the same band. She was a jerk, but I couldn't stop obsessing over her for several years.

Whether it's that kind of crush or something smaller, it will defenitely pass. That fact that she was foreigner probably was very diferent and mysterious and attractive to you, just like all foreign women are to men.

Here is my personal advice. Childhood and youth are vanity. If you get involved with women now, you'll be even worse than if you wait. Girls your age are not ready for a man and you're too young to do anything long term. Not only that, but you have to really be patient and look long and hard to find someone with the kind of integrity that's right to be around. So do you just want a shallow short term relationship, or an immature little girl to break your heart and not take you seriously?

Now is the time for you to seek your purpose in life, to examine your morals, to search out for God if he exists, to build integrity and maturity and keep quiet stay out of trouble and study. Maybe you think that now is the time for you to enjoy life because you're young, but it's really the opposite. Your enjoyment, fulfillment, success in life depends upon the foundation you build now when you're young. That includes everything, not just education to get a good job.

As a last note, I believe that God is the best friend you could ever have, and you don't have to wait. And you don't have to go to Holland to be with him. If God exists, nothing is more important to seek out than him.

And don't smoke too much weed if any because your growing kid. Let your mind and body grow. It's no joke.

That's my personal advice.
natureisawesome Reviewed by natureisawesome on . First time I feel in love. During the holidays I went to a campsite right by St malo,in France. The first night I got there I decided that id go out and attempt to meet some people so that I wouldn't bore my brains out. I met a 14yr old dutch kid who introduced me to his sister who is 18, I asked her for a cigarette and she asked me my age(14). The next day i hanged out with her and got to meet her and here little brother a little brother a little better. The third night we hanged out till 3 in the morning and i Rating: 5